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11 Ways to Save Your Broken Relationship

Relationships are hard, and breakups are even harder. It’s so tempting to just give up when things get tough, but there is a difference between giving up and letting go. Here are 11 ways you can save your broken relationship. Here, you can also find more blog about relationship.

1) Love yourself:  A lot of people think that because they have loved themselves for a long time then their partner should love them too. However, this isn’t the case because loving yourself has nothing to do with another person loving you back. Love yourself first then reach out again to loved ones or potential new relationships.

2) Understand your relationship:  Before you jump into any new relationship, take a look at your last relationship. Why did it fail? Try to understand where each person went wrong. Each failed relationship is a learning experience, which can help you to avoid making the same mistakes again.

3) Set goals: Setting goals gives direction and focus. It keeps you from just drifting in life and taking things day-by-day. Having a clear picture of where you want your life to be in one year, five years and ten years will help you get out of a rut and start fresh.

4) Be willing to get help: No one is perfect, and even though you can’t fix a relationship all by yourself, you don’t need to go it alone either. You can talk to someone who has a wealth of experience in the field of relationships. You could hire a professional or group therapy to help sort out your problems.

5) Get away from each other: If your relationship hasn’t been going well for some time now and things seem irreparable, consider getting a friend or family member over to spend time with in an effort to reconnect and perhaps reignite the flames of desire once more.

6) Listen:  Relationships take place within communication. As much as you want to be the leader of your relationship, the truth is that you should listen to what your significant other has to say. You can’t enjoy a relationship if you’re not being heard by your partner.

7) Look towards yourself:  The best way to improve a relationship is to make sure that both people are taking care of themselves first. In order to be in a happy relationship, each person must feel good about themselves. So look into why you love yourself and treat you with love and respect every chance you get.

8) Be respectful:  Respect is one of the most important elements of any healthy relationship. If you can’t respect your partner, how can you expect them to respect you? Remember that everyone has their own opinions and feelings and no one should have to go through hell in order to make the other person happy.

9) Stay positive:  Thank goodness for a little levity every now and then. Spending too much time in a relationship full of negative emotions will destroy any good vibes that were once there. Keep yourself happy with some nice hobbies, groups of friends and/or activities that you enjoy doing alone or with your family or even pets.

10) Make time for each other:  When two people are in love, the most important thing they have is each other. Spend a little time together during the week, even if it’s just to cuddle or take a nice long bath on the weekend.

11) Don’t force your feelings: If you’re feeling feelings towards someone then you should allow these feelings to grow. It’s amazing how much you can learn about another person when they’ve been in your life for a while and things have settled down to become better. Sometimes people will drag their feet on things with each other, but that doesn’t have to be the case when you’re in love. 

 

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What a Celebrity Blogger Defines as Self-Love

A celebrity blogger wrote an article about self-love.

According to the author of the celebrity blog, self-love is not just a feeling but also an action. When you love yourself, you are confident and happy with who you are as a person, despite any insecurities or challenges that may come along the way.

Without self-love it is possible to feel anxious and sad, mainly because of comparison to others around us. Self-love will not only allow your own happiness to flourish but will also help protect against the negative judgments and hopelessness that other people’s opinions can cause.

Self-love has been featured in culture as far back as ancient Greece. A quote in the book The Ancient Philosophy: An Introduction to Plato, Aristotle, and the Pre-Socratics says, “The selfless man [is] blessed with self-love.”

What does that mean?

“Self-love” is a modern term for what people of the past would call self-knowledge. One of the authors of The Ancient Philosophy states that self-knowledge comes through “the investigation of oneself by reason,” which is why the last line of his definition says, “and knowledge.” Self-knowledge allows you to recognize yourself accurately and learn from your mistakes.

It is not enough to simply love yourself; you must also accept yourself as you are. A celebrity blogger writes, “You can’t love someone unless you accept them for who they are, faults and all.” Many people believe that loving oneself means constantly telling oneself that they are perfect in every way. That is not necessarily the case. According to another of the authors whose work was featured in The Ancient Philosophy , if a person has any faults, he or she should strive to fix those parts of himself or herself that cause her pain. This can take time, but should not be taken lightly because fixing our faults will make us better people overall.

As of 2008, many people are misinterpreting the idea of self-love. A celebrity blogger writes that instead of pursuing self-knowledge, many individuals spend time analyzing others. This is the wrong approach because we can only truly change ourselves. We cannot change anyone else, but we have the ability to change ourselves into better people.

The celebrity blogger makes several suggestions for incorporating self-love into your own life:

To take a step towards loving yourself, you should spend time alone so that you can reflect on yourself without distraction. This is an activity that can be helpful if done in moderation and doesn’t become an obsession with yourself.

Celebrity blogger Denise Richards has announced that she is writing a memoir about her life. She will be discussing her marriage to Charlie Sheen, her career and personal life. This is a good example of how celebrities are putting their personal lives into print so they can share things about themselves that they may not be willing to discuss in an interview or on television. Each of them who have written memoirs now have their own audience for sharing their thoughts and experiences with the world.

Watching interviews taped in the years since Richards’ book has been announced gives insight as to why she would rather write about such personal topics rather than discuss them in public.